You Can Have Perfect Relationships

We are here to enjoy ourselves, and perfect relationships are one of the best ways to do that.

The first, and most important relationship is with yourself. As my mom used to say, "If you don't love yourself, no one else will."

Most of the drama people have with other people comes from not believing that they are worthy in some way. Get over that thinking. You're worthy for one reason and it's the only reason you will ever need: Because you are you.

You are unique. There is no one else quite like you. Be your best self and make peace with that and then attract to yourself the people and relationships that give you an opportunity to be your most perfect self.

Once you know who you are and what you like, you are ready to work on the relationships around you. And guess what? No work is required.

People will tell you that all relationships are work, and the truth is that if you enter into every relationship with the full intention that you are going to be a loving person with integrity and honesty, and you will only accept relationships (whether work or personal or family) with people who are the same, you'll find that anyone who doesn't fit your idea of someone you enjoy being around will disappear from your life.

They just won't be there.

Or, they won't be there when they are being something that is not in alignment with who you desire to be around.

So, it's as simple as knowing who you are, what you want, and listening to yourself.

Then, imagine your life with people who are supportive and happy and where you work together rather than compete with folks.

And remember, since you are who you want to be, that means you need to let people be who they are. Good or bad.

If it's good, great. They'll be around your life.

If who they are is something you don't like, then let them go right out of your life.

In the teaching of Abraham-Hicks, they call this focusing on your pie and not worrying about other people's pie.

In other words, just like your kitchen is full of lots of wonderful ingredients, but you wouldn't put them all in your pie, because it would taste awful, the world is full of wonderful people, experiences, and things. Some you like. Others you do not like. Rather than try to make something you do not like fit in your pie, just leave it out altogether. Only put those things in your pie which will make it wonderful for you!

You'll find your life flows easier.

Happiness and calm are ever present.

And, the people you love will actually love you even more when you're not trying to make them something they are not.

Enjoy creating your perfect relationships, playing with, working with, and loving the unique, beautiful people who make up this wonderful world.

Successful relationships are the key to the perfect life!